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Sorry

12:58 AM

But hes just learning

A negative or positive thought may or may not be a tulpa. It's best not to assume a negative thought is, but also is not good to assume no negative thoughts come from your tulpa.

Why tell him that?

12:58 AM

He should assume not

12:58 AM

Right

12:59 AM

Dont take my statements as concrete.

12:59 AM

Just telling what i believe, and it works

12:59 AM

I didnt write any guides

12:59 AM

I just research the stuff for 6 mo, not 5 years

1:00 AM

Rules of thumb (edited)

Well, hopefully a beginner wouldn't blindly accept everything a more established member said either, and would consider different viewpoints.

Thank you for that.

1:02 AM

Ultimately it is more important to take in all data and believe what is best for you.

1:02 AM

I agree with 95% of the community. But no one is 100% right.

one of my tulpas insists that she is

1:04 AM

she generally is so

When you begin, reject all negativity.

1:06 AM

If they have a negative thought it is normal, but not productive

eh I dunno about reject negativity

Why wouldnt you, srsly?

because it's entirely possible that your tulpa could be upset or frustrated about something??

1:07 AM

including that they're having trouble communicating

Thats okay, but stay positive.

1:07 AM

About it.

You can't exactly hide behind a veneer of positivity forever, unfortunately.

The best option in a case like this is to inform a person about the nature of how a tulpa thinks, how intrusive thoughts work, and how it is generally good to navigate dealing with where it is hard to tell the difference.

what if you’re an anxious mess

Really.

1:08 AM

I want to learn

1:09 AM

I know, me too, but dont assume they r yr tulpa.

1:09 AM

Its not fair to them

1:09 AM

Not u

1:10 AM

The others were arguing semantics

1:10 AM

I am technically wrong to think that positivity is what you should concentrate on

no, you're arguing that you should just ignore anything negative that your tulpa would maybe say

I guess

What's going on? I was trying to immerse myself in it a little and I come back to seeing an argument

Right, isnt that better to dom

nobody said don't concentrate on positivity

If u dont know

people were saying don't ignore negative thoughts

I literally feel like I have someone standing behind me with their hand on my shoulder right now, wth

Gtg

Welp, guess it's my senses being weird again, still don't have a name for it

I don't think anybody here is advocating for a negative experience, just that you should accept all potential emotions from a tulpa, especially if you're going to assume that stray thoughts are coming from them.

that

Sorry vos, i was just trying to help. I will be more mindful in the future. Vos is actually a sweetie, so listen to her too.

1:19 AM

Gtg last time

you didn't do anything wrong

Oof (edited)

1:22 AM

Is what I said a good or a bad thing

O O F

I feel like there's someone standing behind me, with their hand on my shoulder, watching over me as I'm playing this

1:25 AM

And I'm semi-visualizing it too

1:26 AM

Is that what it's called?

1:26 AM

?

1:27 AM

It's like this thing that I'm just gonna call empathetic senses I guess, where if I hear/see something happened(say, someone got slugged in the arm) I can feel it in some amount myself

1:28 AM

Especially when people get smashed in the privates or something hard, it feels like I'm right at the point of puking at extreme times

1:28 AM

But it happens a lot for me

1:28 AM

Even without seeing it

1:29 AM

Just thinking about it sometimes

1:29 AM

I can literally sometimes think of a certain sensation/texture and feel it

1:29 AM

Like, on the spot

1:29 AM

And it's weird

cool man

You sound like me

1:30 AM

Oofk

1:31 AM

"cool"

lit

Ok nvm

hella

O no

hella

3:15 AM

i need to use hella more

test only

4:03 AM

cool. gtg

Hey

hi

So, I've been doing what I assume is forcing for a few days. Been consistently feeling what I assume is the "presence" people refer to. Talking to her. Acknowledging her. Keeping my mind aware of her existence as much as possible. Felt like I was doing a fairly good job of keeping the presence... real and consistent. Almost always there.

6:15 AM

But earlier today, a few minutes after we had just had an interaction, I realized her presence was... just not there.

6:16 AM

And I'm now in a confused state of how to react.

young tulpas can poof all of a sudden

6:19 AM

it's not uncommon

So would it just be best to wait, or is there some action on my part that I should be performing?

Probably best to wait

yeah, just wait

7:13 AM

ask her to let you know next time

Do you necessarily need to talk with a tulpa? Or is it fine to just coexist?

9:13 AM

In my experience my tulpa(s) have only really talked with other people

9:13 AM

We've never engaged in conversation 1 on 1

Should I worry about watching the show my tulpa comes from? I've heard it's fine as long as they know they're still different but it just feels off-putting

I had the same thing, some of my tulpae came from a book I wrote. I feel weird editing that book now.

Should I worry about it though?

No, whatever you feel comfortable with.

Also, if you don't have to go, how would I go about getting a wonderland that's to my taste?

Wonderland can be anything. At first it was a blank room with a couch that my Tulpae sat on.

12:07 PM

Take what I say for what it's worth. the tulpae don't care as long as you're happy with it. They will change it too.

So I should go as simplistic as possible? As I really have no idea what I want it to be

its fine to do that.